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Do you feel abundance or is your money running away from you?

Abundance is closely connected to the act of giving. You can imagine money as a stream, like a river that flows. In fact, we need to understand money as an entity if we want to be good friends with money, if we want to be in the stream of abundance.

What about you, do you feel rich and abundant? Or do you feel that something stops you swimming in the stream of abundance?

Yes it is about our mindset, we need to learn how to think in terms of money. We need to take care of money as if we’re taking care of our beloved. If you are not caring, loving and generous enough with your partner, he or she will run away. It’s the same with money. How we talk about money, how we think about money, how we behave towards money all influence our relationship with money.

Do you LOVE money? What does your partner do if you do love, do care and do give them attention? Probably s/he will come back to you. Money does the same thing.

So one of the aspects of the relationship with money is the act of giving. Are you happy to give? I mean to give without expectation of getting anything back. Simply do you know how to keep the stream flowing? Can you feel generous or give gifts with an open heart?

Some people try to stop the stream with the intention of having financial stability and keep money with them. Because they lose the trust that money will come back again. It takes courage to be able to invest part of your money in your future. For example, giving money to your relationship, to your company, to a project, to your children or simply to yourself.

And this way we let money grow, we don’t want to spend money, we want to invest money to let it grow and develop itself.

You can test yourself; you can test what kind of relationship with the energy of money you have. How easy or difficult is it to give a present to someone gratis, with no side agenda, just for your happiness and to keep the stream flowing.

If you’re interested to explore this I can give you a tool:

1.Give one thing to someone you really like. Look at your feelings while you’re buying or choosing the gift. Are you careful how much you invest in this person? Or do you feel generous and happy to invest energy into them?

2.Then give something to yourself, something that has value to you, something you’ve been thinking about, something that’s accessible for you and makes you feel nice. Is it easier to give to yourself or the other person?

3.And give one thing to a stranger, perhaps some of your belongings you may not need anymore but you think that person will find useful.

Throughout this exercise carefully observe if it’s easy for you to be generous and if it makes you happy or what kind of other thoughts are popping up. It will signify what kind of relationship you have with money.

Please leave your comments below. If you have some discovery I will be happy to read it.

Bara

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Your health is in your mind

by Bara February 25 | 2015

Your health is in your mind

Did you know that everything starts with a little thought? The kind of energy that thought carries will be projected outside of the mind.

Imagine a projector and blank screen. Without content these items mean nothing. And without the projector and screen, the movie also means nothing.

We usually choose if we want to educate, or feel romantic, or feel the adventure while watching a movie. And it works the same way with our brain. What content we choose to fill our brain with we will project on the blank screen called, ”Me and my life”.

Actually, since we’re born someone is constantly filing our brain with different kinds of content: parents, teachers, doctors, government etc. And they taught us to surrender, to hand over the power of our choice into someone else’s hands.

Since then someone else is choosing the movie that WE ARE WATCHING! If you feel weak you go to a doctor to confirm your sickness and give it a name. Native American tribes people stay in the tent if they feel weak and wait to see what message the body has for them. Often “the sickness” is simply here to show us the direction of our life.

But other humans consider it as something wrong to be rid of. I understand the sickness as a weakness that says open your eyes and look carefully. I don’t visit doctors any more (not for four years), and only the dentist twice a year. And of course I’m not taking any commercial medicine and drugs. Since I have connected my body as a part of me, the body and its colourful states are my helpers.

I don’t say my way is the right one, but I feel great. And the state of my health is my movie, the content of my mind that I’ve chosen. And I think it’s a great example of what it’s like when you decide to consciously influence the quality of your life.

Because when I was little girl the normal in our family was to be sick. And good health was considered something special, unusual and unreachable. I had laryngitis attacks often and in between various other sicknesses. During my teens I never stopped visiting the doctor I with several troubles considered as chronic illnesses.

I went though a few operations to try to fix it …and so on and on. It was really annoying for my life, but I did not know how to get out of this cycle. I had to meet lots of people with different points of view. And they showed me how to find the way out of this cage.

One day I noticed that I could accept health as a state of mind, even if my family will probably never understand that I don’t follow the family tradition in many ways. Including the fact that it really is a decision to feel well.

I don’t know what kind of family beliefs you have. But have the courage to play your own movie!

Wishing you a great journey in your life

Bara with Love

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What is the value of your time?

by Bara February 15 | 2015

What is the value of your time?

We talk about time a lot. You hear the phrase “I don’t have time” maybe a few times a day. Think about that phrase again: “I don’t have time”. Do you think it’s possible to possess time?

How come someone has time and somebody else doesn’t if everyone’s day is always 24 hours long? From the spiritual point of view I would bravely say that ‘time’ does not exist.

What do you think was first, our planet with all its life, or the watch? The simple fact that time changes several times during the year indicates that something is not completely correct about it.

Time is simply one of the things that humans try to possess and control, instead of following the true rhythm of the day – the sunrise and the sunset. Or even our personal rhythms; waking up when the body is rested and taking a break when we’re overwhelmed and so on. Humans simply want more than this incredible phenomenon of nature.

We want to have time. But what happens if we have time? Can we exchange our time for money? Oh yes, that’s what we do. We sell our time. For example, the supermarket checkout man sold eight hours of his time today. After some time of this routine he may forget to listen to the sun or listen to his body rhythm. And he soon becomes a worshipper of the watch.

I even remember my mom once saying, “Without my watch I feel like I’m without my arm”. Wow, that terrifies me! Personally I threw out my watch five years ago (and it was a beautiful Storm watch!). I just did not want to be dedicated to the watch. While I had its weight on my arm I could never relax. And it never let me be in the present moment.

So we sell time. And we buy the time of someone else. How can we gain more personal time? Often what happens is that we don’t have time for the activities we love or for our partner and families.

There is only one solution. If you’re still playing this performance called “The Time” you may try to play a different performance for a while called, “The last day of my life”.

Shocked? By thinking like this you can catch the thoughts that run in your brain right now. You may notice that you really want to do things you’re passionate about.

When time disappears there is just the pure present moment. What happened in the past is not important any more, what will happen in the future is not clear. So the only Time we really have is now.

This point of view is the light that shows us what really matters to us.
Wish you great journey.

Bara with love

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moments versus time
the moments you gave me have been timeless and I'm really grateful for that gift! Reflecting these I agree with you and will be more than willing to adopt this for my whole life. I'm trying to implement it piece by piece, step by step in my daily living as far as my situation allows, and I'm happy with it. I know there will be more and more moments full with love for everything in me and around me. Wizh timeless love Markus
I agree there, our time is ours to do what we wish with it. Folks do not see that, I speak with the family about something. They reply with, "I do not have the time for that" to merely reflect or look into ourselves. That is something we should do regardless of time. I do day in day out when it comes to my mind. As always a great write up. Thanks for reading, Yea
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Dear Bara, If you didn't sell your time, many people would be not experience your special talents unless - like the Sacred Priestesses of olden days - you offered your services for free or for a voluntary donation!. (If that were possible, I would hitch-hike to Barcelona/Sitges to spend a week or more learning and experiencing the indescribable wonders of Tantric Massages). As I commented on your previous blog (What is Your Personal Vision?), my desires are being frustrated by lack of financial resources. Many of us have to buy time for what we want, even when we cannot or should not afford to do so. What practical alternative do we have?. Love and best wishes. Mojo55-7

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